Thursday, June 18, 2015

Glimpses of Life Right Now

Lately, I've been trying to break out the big camera and catch some photos. Everyday life can be so mundane, but trying to get a shot helps me see my own life with new eyes. Like this day, when my Ellie was helping feed her brother yogurt (while sneaking in a few spoonfuls for herself, of course!)






There was also this pretty summer necklace...


This beautiful park in South Jersey...



And last (but never least)--my every morning cup of coffee. So normal, but such a lovely part of my day. I hope the coffee + blogs breakfast tradition continues for a good long time:)


So those are some peeks into our life right now. What's going on in YOUR life today?

Wednesday, June 10, 2015

Stitch Fix Review #2

About a year ago, I decided to try Stitch Fix for the first time. If you're new to the concept, Stitch Fix is a service that mails you several clothing items that you get to try on in your own home and decide what to keep and what to send back. There is a $20 styling fee which goes towards any purchase you make, but if you decide not to keep anything, you are out that $20.  Full disclosure: If you decide to try Stitch Fix using my referral link, and schedule a Fix, I will receive a $25 credit. That being said, this is going to be a very honest review of my experience with Stitch Fix, and its pros and cons.

When I first tried Stitch Fix, I kept one item--you can see the full post and review HERE. Although I liked the shirt that I kept, I did think that the prices on the items were overall higher than what I would normally spend, so I waited a while before trying the service again. After seeing a ton of fun Stitch Fix reviews on blogs, I decided to give it another whirl.

For me, the funnest part of the service is the element of surprise: opening the box and seeing the pretty colors and patterns inside!


Each box comes with a personalized note explaining why certain items were chosen...


As well as a details on the price of each piece. Note: One great aspect of Stitch Fix is that if you keep all five items, you get an extra 25% off!


My first item was the 41 Hawthorn Abrianna Longsleeve Knit Cardigan ($48)


This cardigan was definitely pretty and very summery (not to mention super comfortable) but I get hot easily (I blame the babies--they raised my body temperature!) and don't wear cardigans very often. Also, I thought the price was high for a basic item that would probably spend most of its life stuffed into a purse.


If I were a cardigan person, though....then I would be in trouble.

Verdict on this one = Sent back!

My next two items were the 41 Hawthorn Rosa Tab Sleeve V-Neck Blouse ($48) and the Gilli Kara Printed Maxi Skirt ($58).


Now the style card suggested I wear these items together....but I wound up looking larger than I did when nine months pregnant!


The top was a gorgeous color but way too large (see the shot below!). Something was also up with the sleeves--they were SUPER tight and I could barely get them on. AND it was sheer all over, which is a big downside for me since a modest wearing of this top would equal MANY layers. 


As for the skirt, (a) it was way too long, and (b) the pattern was ok, but nothing too exciting. And I can't imagine ever paying almost $60 for something that I could basically get at Target.

Verdict on both = Sent back!

The next piece in my box was the 41 Hawthorn Jace Dot Print Fit & Flare Dress ($48)


Now, this is one where I'm getting a little bit of Stitch Fix regret looking at the photos! My main issues with this were fit: it felt a little tight and a little short, and for the price, I wanted it to fit perfectly. I also didn't love how the dress looked with a shirt underneath--I think it might look better with a black shell, but it's June and I ain't wearing black on black anytime soon.


Verdict = Sent back

My final item was the GIlli Zuli Striped Maxi Dress ($74)


Before I discuss this dress, I have a confession to make: I have never, ever worn a maxi dress. As a shorty, it can be hard to find ones that aren't too long, and I've always thought the style overwhelmed me a little bit.

While I would have LOVED this mint striped pattern on a top or skirt, it was just too much for me in a long dress. BUT it did inspire me to give the maxi dress look a try--I'm searching for a black one that may be more subtle and easier to wear.

Verdict = Sent back!

Another side note: Every Stitch Fix item comes with a style card giving you inspiration on how to wear the item!


Thoughts on the Pros and Cons of Stitch Fix:

Now, at first glance, this Fix was a total bust--5 items sent, 0 kept. After this, I'm really on the fence about trying again. Here are some of the pros and cons of the service for me.

PROS:

  • Breaks you out of your style rut
  • Less overwhelming than in-person shopping
  • You can try on items with things you already own 
  • Can potentially save you money IF you stay out of stores
  • Last but not least--the fun of getting that box!
CONS: 
  • The chances of 5 items, chosen by someone else, working on me are not all that high 
  • The timeline to make a decision can be stressful 
  • Risk of keeping items just to avoid losing the styling fee
  • Major con for me = the prices are MUCH higher than what I would normally spend. Which is a big issue if the item is a fashion risk!
What do YOU think--would you try Stitch Fix again? 



Thursday, June 4, 2015

A guest post and some fun links!

Hello blog friends! Today I have a fun guest post, along with some links for you to check out!



Today I have a fun treat: a guest post from Revital, a wife and mom living in Israel who blogs at Creative Mommies AND Jewish Journal (I'm already impressed!)


Today, Revital is here to share some thoughts on motherhood, image, and comparison.

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If you’re a bit like me, you may find yourself wondering from time to time, “How does she manage? How does she do it?” And then start agonizing, which of course leads you in a bee-line to the freezer and the Ben & Jerry’s ice cream waiting patiently for you…

As we all know and feel, there are soooo many reasons to feel less anything than another young woman our age: she’s so thin (right after giving birth!), her sheitel always looks so perfect, her kids always match and their clothes are always clean, she finds time to pamper herself, she’s so good at balancing career & family…

Today’s topic of discussion, however, is: how does she (a young mother with two/three little ones) manage to balance her pursuit of a higher education/extra courses/degrees? Many women nowadays complete their higher education before having children. But what about those who don’t? Or those who earned their BA before kids and pursue their MA with Moishie in diapers and Suri in pull-ups?

So, after my personal experience pursuing a three-month design course in nearby Tel Aviv, which took up two afternoons and evenings each week, I can confidently tell you that “She didn’t/doesn’t manage!” 
My neighbors looked at me, mother of five young boys, in awe and wonder. But it was undeserved. My life and home were a wreck during those three months! Even though I hired a babysitter to take care of the kids and do whatever tidying she could in the meantime (haha!), my children and home (i.e.- laundry, dishes & floors) were unable to bear the lack of an Ima for only two afternoons and evenings a week!

The guilt… oh, the guilt! As any self-respecting Jewish mother would, I felt terribly guilty about the whole ordeal and wondered how good of an investment this course really was. (Now, half a year later, I can confidently tell you that this course did not lead to any new freelance jobs, pay raises… nada!)

So, my conclusion about feeling like you don’t match up your neighbor is that it’s all a bluff. If you’re jealous of her, chances are she’s also jealous of you!

The grass is always greener on the other side.

The main thing is to try to do what you and your husband think is best for your family in the long run, and just let all those thin, fun, put-together, successful, educated neighbors wonder how you manage so nicely! ;)
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Love this, Revital!  First of all, you had me at FIVE BOYS. Second, I think we all feel this way sometimes--great way to remind us all that we're doing our best, and that everyone's life looks shinier on the outside. 



On another note, I'm so excited to have my first piece published on Kveller--a really interesting Jewish parenting/life website. My article is about learning from the Duggar scandal as an Orthodox Jew, and you can heck it out HERE!






Finally, there's another round of Orthodox Women Talk up over at Ruchi's blog! This round is all about Judaism and marriage. Check it out HERE.

And that's it for this week! Hope you are all having a wonderful and happy week:)